It’s the gifting season and while you’ll be giving wholesome presents to friends and family, you can also use this time to get some spicy goods for your partner. Hell, you can even just do some sexy shopping for yourself. If you’ve been wondering about introducing some toys to your bedroom, try these.
Best sex toys to gift to a partner
Whether you’re new to toys altogether or looking for something new, here are some gifts for your partner that are really gifts for you both.
Try this BDSM starter kit ($13.99), which comes with hand restraints, a blindfold, a ball gag, and more. It has enough stuff in there for you to figure out what you like—and don’t like—and you can invest in bigger and better versions by the time your partner’s birthday rolls around, making this a gift that keeps on giving.
The most basic—and necessary—gift for couples is lube, so spoil yourselves with the K-Y Yours + Mine ($14.89), which comes with one tingling lube and one warming lube, both of which are sex-toy-safe.
No matter what kind of setup you have in your bedroom, this restraint kit ($13.99) makes it easy to secure arms and legs at a variety of angles without having to think too hard about the logistics of it all.
If you’re not sure where to begin, you could always try these tokens ($5), which have raunchy suggestions about precisely what you and your partner should get up to at that very moment. Have them reach in the bag and pull one out—then do whatever it says.
Sex toy gifts for people with vaginas
If you want to pick up some gifts for your friend to use on their own or with you, try these.
A wearable, app-controlled vibrator like this one ($35.99) is fun for playing on the go. The wearer or another person can control the device using a phone, so there’s more than one way to have fun here.
The sucking rose ($59.99) is the most popular, viral toy out there right now—and for good reason. Give it to your girlfriend or buy it for yourself and you’ll understand why immediately.
Alternately, reject modernity and embrace tradition by picking up the old faithful, a Magic Wand ($99). It’s always a hit. Why reinvent the wheel?
Sex toy gifts for people with penises
There are great sex toys for those with penises out there too.
Cock rings are a good choice as long as you know your partner and know they’d be comfortable with them. Whether using them to stay hard longer (Ultra Sweller set, three for $12.99) or for a little butt action during the deed (the incredibly named Ass-Gasm Penis Plug Ring, $24.99), they can add a lot to your sack sessions.
Male masturbators also make great gifts and you have a lot of options. The All In Stroker is just $13.74 and is a great entry point, but you can also work your way up to the Piper Rechargeable Masturbator ($119.99), which uses suction, vibration, and warmth to create a wild experience for the user.
